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Marriage Care Clinic...Couples Therapy

We believe marriage is as much about commitment as it is about love.

Philosophy Assessment Therapy Care Groups Education

Therapy through our Marriage Care Clinic helps couples develop understanding, insight and compassion for themselves as well as their partner. We work with couples to understand the patterns and themes that may create dances of distance, conflict, or parallel existence. Our Marriage Care Clinic also provides education, assessment, resources and support to individuals and groups in the community.

Philosophy

Our Marriage Care Therapists are committed to:
  •   A pro-marriage stance
  •   Taking an active role in marital therapy
  •   Helping couples move from an idealized model of marriage to a more mutually defined model
  •   Honoring both people in the relationship
  •   Holding each person accountable towards the goals of the marriage
  •   Viewing the current relationship within the context of each person's family history
  •   Encouraging individual growth within the relationship.

Assessment

The purpose of a marriage assessment is to help couples evaluate the strengths and weaknesses of their relationship. This is done via personal interviews, questionnaires, and inventories. Particular attention is paid to other mental health concerns, such as depression, anxiety, chemical dependency, adult ADD, etc., that may be negatively impacting the relationship. The result is a blueprint of the marriage which becomes the context for marital therapy.

In addition, we do pre-marital assessments. Some couples choosing to marry or to re-marry wish to assess their relationship prior to marriage.

Marital Therapy

The focus of the work is on increasing three key relational skills: empathy, reciprocity, and accountability. A primary emphasis of the couple's work is to understand patterns and themes that have created a dance of distance, conflict or parallel existence. We help couples develop understanding, insight and compassion for their own personal stories and how they impact the marriage.

Using current marital research, we help couples move from an idealized view of marriage to a more mutually defined and realistic model.

Marriage Care Groups

A Marriage Care Group is a self-directed group of couples that meets on a monthly basis to focus on building healthier marriages. The group is comprised of 5-7 couples who make a one year commitment to participate.

A typical two hour meeting might look like this:
  •   20 minute check-in time
  •   20 minute informal marriage enrichment topic presented by the host couple
  •   30 minute private couple dialogue/homework time
  •   50 minute large group discussion of topic followed by a light dessert and social time
A Marriage Care Group is not a therapy group. It is not meant for couples who need significant resolution of persistent problems. These groups are a form of enrichment meant to provide accountability towards maintaining a vibrant, intentional relationship in a very demanding world.

The Marriage Care Clinic of Lakewood is available to help you jump-start your group. We'll conduct the first meeting and remain available for consultation as needed.

Educational Opportunities

Educational opportunities are available for couples seeking to learn, integrate, and enrich the satisfaction of their existing or future marriages.

Workshops can be designed for 1-2 hour singe-topic presentations or half or full day experiences. All presentations include educational information along with experiential skill-building activities. Couples will leave with one or more "tools" that have the power to improve their marriage.

Educational opportunities include seminars on a variety of topics. A sampling is listed below:
  •   Developing a Mission Statement for Your Marriage - creating a mutually defined model of marriage
  •   His Story/Her Story - the influence of our birth families on our marriages
  •   Fighting For Your Marriage - communication and conflict resolution
If you have a topic you'd like addressed in a presentation for your church, group, or business or have questions about our Marriage Care Clinic, please contact Kris Koestner, 612.798.7373, ext. 12

SERVICE DIRECTORY

Individual Therapy

Couples Therapy

Child and Adolescent Therapy

Family Counseling

Chemical Dependency
      Intervention & Assessment

Group Therapy

Career Counseling

Training and Consultation

Education and Seminars

Women's Clinic

612-798-7373, 6607 18th Ave. S. #101, Richfield, MN 55423, Lakewood Counseling and Career Center
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